Frequently Asked Questions
What happens in a relationship counselling session?
A counselling session is an opportunity for a couple to explore their relationship under the guidance of the counsellor. The counsellor uses a number of different methods to support the couple in achieving this including asking questions, listening, being empathic, validating, challenging, making interpretations and assisting the couple to talk directly to each other when helpful.
Does relationship counselling focus on keeping couples together?
Only if that is what they both want or are willing to explore.Some couples come to counselling to help them explore separating.
How many sessions will we need?
That really does vary depending on each couple and their issues. An average might be 6-8 sessions.However some need less and some need more.
Is it alright to come along for one session before we commit ourselves?
Absolutely.
How often do we come?
Preferably once a week at the same time for 50mins each session.
Why is relationship counselling helpful?
We all need help, support and expert advice at times in life whether it is going to the GP about our bodies or ringing a plumber because our washing machine is not working properly. Our relationships are no different but every bit as important.
Do you offer pre-marriage relationship information, guidance and/or counselling?
Yes. Certainly. Individuals and couples can find this immensely helpful in giving them the security and confidence to take that next step in their relationship.
Is relationship counselling only for couples?
No.It is for individuals as well as couples.
How successful are you with your clients?
As I mentioned earlier some clients want to stay together and some wish to separate and some are not sure whether they want to stay together. As a counsellor I work with couples to support their intention, not mine, for their relationship. Success, therefore, in their eyes depends upon their intended outcome.I am very comfortable working with all these options.
However when I am working with clients who want to stay together they often notice a considerable change for the better in a short period of time as I start working directly with the root causes of what is causing them to feel unhappy. .
