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Nick Haynes Registered Member MBACP MNCS(Acc) Relate CC Cert

Welcome to my website.

I am an experienced Relate trained counsellor in private practice for the last 6 years and I specialize in couple counselling in Oxford, offering sessions during the day and in the evening.

I counsel couples of all genders and estimate that I have given over 5,000 couple sessions in recent years.

Are you having a difficult time together and thinking about or wanting couple counselling?

Understandably it can often feel daunting or challenging to come along and talk to a complete stranger about something as important and personal as your relationship.

You may anticipate and be worried about hearing another round from your partner of how you are failing and getting it wrong. Or perhaps you are trying to get your partner's attention to find out whether you still matter and are important to them.

Either way my guess is that you may need some support and do not know how to fix it on your own.

The good news is that there has been a tremendous advance through science and research in our understanding of the issues that are at the core of all couple problems and most importantly how to resolve them.

This I do in a way that is warm, supportive and helps you both feel heard, understood and entitled to your experience. However it is also powerful and encouraging and helps you both know how to get out of the destructive pattern and cycle you have been caught in together.

To find out more please Call me on 07890 850563 or e-mail me at n.haynes54@gmail.com

As a couples counsellor I have a wide experience of the types of difficulties that may be triggering problems in your relationship.

These can include:

  • Arguments,fights and tension
  • Affairs - feeling of betrayal and loss of trust, guilt
  • Communication issues - we can't or don't talk anymore
  • Lack of intimacy
  • Feeling emotionally disconnected with your partner
  • Not feeling wanted or loved by your partner
  • Inappropriate fighting such as pushing, hitting, swearing directly, throwing things.
  • Feelings for your partner have changed
  • Not sure about the future together
  • Sexual relationship and loss of or change in interest
  • If you have young children not spending enough quality time as a couple
  • Anxiety and insecurity
  • Differences over money
  • If Internet pornography addiction is affecting your relationship together

    This is by no means a comprehensive list but may include some of the issues that you are experiencing in your relationship.

    If you would like to consider coming for counselling our first meeting is an assessment session. It will give you an opportunity to decide if you want more sessions and does not commit you to counselling.

    If you would like to read more about the new " Science of Love " why don't you read my article on Relationships

    For an appointment please Call 07890 850563 or e-mail me at n.haynes54@gmail.com
  • Location

    Face to face counselling sessions are held at:

    The Raleigh Park Clinic
    45, Raleigh Park Rd,
    Oxford, OX2 9AR

    The clinic is in Botley just off the A34 in Oxford and has easy access and parking.

    It's location so close to the A34 makes it very convenient for driving from other towns and neighbouring counties. Oxford railway station is 5 mins by car and there is a local bus service.

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